<<<The essential details>>>

We are excited to invite you to this 4-day Live Session online Master Your Pleasure journey. This offering is an adaptation of the flow, syllabus & content of the week long in-person journey. You can take this journey as an individual, or as a couple/dyad or with a partner/friend. You would both need to be in the same physical space.


This journey will require you to be fully immersed in this portal for the 4 days .  

Dates - 22 - 25 April, 2021 from 10 am - 8 pm, UK Time.

It is a deep immersion group and individual process. The journey will include online & offline experiences, sessions, paired practices, small group circles and breaks for rest, reflection & integration this will span the entire day with appropriate breaks. 

<<<Online Embodiment Journeys >>> The Magic & Shadow of the Zoom Room

We are excited and curious to share the experience of Master Your Pleasure Online Edition with you.


Over these past few months we have had the privilege to offer deep, embodied, shamanic, intimate, ritual group spaces in the Cyberland.


It is incredible how much depth, safety, connection, transformation and magic can arise. Some participants have shared that their experience has shown that online they have had a greater capacity to feel safe and go deep. There are also some potential challenges primarily screen fatigue.


We are extremely aware of this factor. Therefore, we will be offering a varied and dynamic journey where time on and off screen will be weaved, with solo practices, active bodywork sessions, breathwork sessions, paired practices, dance, short lectures, small groups, sharings, audio only, large circles.


We will alchemise mental, emotional, physical and energetic experiences to support you to be fully engaged with all parts of your being.

<<<Investment >>>

Early Bird -  Fully Booked


Regular - £ 450 per person.

Note: If attending with a partner, both must register & pay separately. At this time there is no  discount offered to couples attending  as this is primarily an individual process.  

<<<How to Register>>>

We would love you to join us for this event if you feel called. 


Scroll down to the Book Now section . Please register by paying the investment of £450 per person completing using the Book Now section . You will receive a payment confirmation and a Welcome  Note on checking out ( i.e completing payment) to the email that you have used while registering to the event.. This email also contains links to complete the participation information form and journaling tips in preparation of the event. Please do complete the participant information form as soon as possible. 

<<<The invitation>>>


Master Your Pleasure is a Somatic, Tantrik, & Shamanic Body initiation through Pleasure . This 6th edition is a 4-day Online Live Session offering, harnessing the power of the virtual space to being a powerful group and individual experience.


This immersion is a place to learn and practice how to open, connect, master, and free pleasure in your body working with an 8-level pleasure model all the way from the womb to mental, emotional,  sexual and spiritual bliss. We will take this journey into the pleasure bodies using a different number of techniques, exercises, rituals and meditations based on some modern day specialities, such as sexological bodywork, conscious communication and consent and we will dive into a number of ancient temple arts including Tantra, Meditation and Shamanism. 


The principle behind the recalibrational effect of this space is the continuous meeting and opening of the somatic, physical, shamanic, mental and emotional pathways. This deliberate and targeted activation of the pleasure pathways through a multi-modality approach gives the opportunity of real and deep changes on many levels of the awareness and actual capacity to experience pleasure. You will learn techniques and skills to masterfully reconnect yourself to pleasure whenever you choose to.


A pleasure initiation engaging the mind, body, soul, heart, emotional body, elemental play and your inner child to reset your being and your neurology for safety, receptivity, permission, trust, healthy bonding and attachment, energetic and pleasure capacity.


  <<<How does the online version of Master Your Pleasure work?>>>


Recent times have shown us, and perhaps also you, how powerfully this work can be transmitted and transferred to the online space. This will, of course, be a different experience to the in-person week long event and I look forward to offering in-person spaces for this journey again in the future. The journey will include online & offline experiences, sessions, paired practices, small group circles and breaks for rest, reflection & integration. The experience will span the entire day with appropriate breaks. 


<<<Who is the experiential intensive suitable for?>>>

  • You find it difficult or impossible to experience pleasure without some external stimulus, another person, toys, imagery.

  • You are missing pleasure in certain parts of your life, for example your mind may be a place that has plenty of pleasure but you may be lacking it in your body or vice versa.

  • You are aware of addictive patterns around how you experience pleasure.

  • You have a knowing that you do not allow yourself to experience pleasure.

  • You have a knowing that there is more pleasure possible .

  • You have a good level of pleasure but you want to experience the maximum pleasure possible for yourself in this life, in this body.

  • You are afraid of pleasure or you feel guilty about experiencing pleasure.

  • You are great at giving pleasure to others, but struggle to allow yourself to receive pleasure.

  • You are a curious adventurer.

  • You have always put the needs of others above your own needs.

  • You have healed and moved on from many of your life challenges, you are no longer in pain or suffering, but you are still disconnected on some level from pleasure.. and/or expansive, ecstatic bliss remains elusive for you.

  • You are trapped in pain and suffering and learning to experience pleasure could be very healing for you.

  • You LOVE newer, different subtleties of pleasure.

<<<Who are the facilitators? >>>

Elaine Yonge – Lead Facilitator



​Elaine Yonge is a Sexuality, Tantra, Shamanic Breathwork & Bodywork Facilitator and Guide. She facilitates events for ISTA and her own offerings in London and overseas. Elaine has a busy private client practice in London.


Elaine utilises skills from more traditional Tantra, Shamanism, Transformational Somatic Sexological Bodywork and Breathwork. She loves to work with the integration of sexuality & spirituality , the body, the mind and the soul energies. Elaine’s work with clients often begins with reonnecting them to their body and their sexual energy. She longs to support clients to live life as emotionally and sexually expressive beings.


Her work includes sexuality issues, lack of libido, orgasm & self pleasuring, understanding and changing unhealthly sexual /relationship patterning, genital somatic clearing of pain or disconnection, freeing oneself from shame and guilt around sexuality, consent and boundaires, working with the emotional body including childhood wounding, cultural and religious conditioning, grief healing and transformation through shamanic breathwork journeying.



Bynoi Desouza – Support Facilitator



I’m an International Educator and Facilitator. I grew up in India & lived there till the age of 23. I have spent the last 15 years living in different parts of Europe (Belgium, Sweden & UK), Asia, & South America and speak 6+ languages.

I’m also a Speaker, BodyWorker, Artist, & Mentor; a Classical Non-Dual Tantrik Native Scholar & Practitioner; Somatic Sexual Educator; Embodiment Guide & Practitioner (Esoteric, Sexual Shamanic, & Taoist Internal Arts modalities).

I’m passionate about the transformative capacity of embodied self-inquiry to profoundly affect the interbeing of the human condition. Exploring the liminal spaces of the human condition bringing resistance into resonance, honoring the beauty in decay, and finding wisdom in nature’s forms. Engaging with multi-dimensional embodiment itself as study, student & inner guide. 

Diverse embodied fields, often in source language (Classical Non-Dual Tantrik traditions; Somatic Sexology; Trauma-informed Neuro-Transformative Embodiment; Nervous System Health, Dance, & Movement; Shamanic & Soul Awareness; Mystery Traditions, Temple Arts, & Taoist Internal Arts) inform my approach, spiral of enquiry, and work.  I look forward to walking the path alongside you, if you feel drawn too.

<<<What will we do?>>>


We will have group sessions during the day and sometimes in the evenings up to 8pm UK time. We will take this journey with pleasure using a different number of practices, rituals, guided bodywork sessions and meditations based on some modern day specialities like sexological bodywork, conscious communication and consent and we will dive into a number of ancient wise temple arts including Tantra, Meditation and Shamanism.



 <<<Techniques & Rituals?>>>


Core Erotic Theme Analysis

Sensate Focussing

Shamanic Breathwork Journeying

Sexual Styles, Fantasy Signatures & Pleasure Mapping

Body Energy Orgasm

Orgasmic Yoga

Shadow Exploration

Healthy Relationship Modeling (exploring attachment, longing & neediness)


<<<Why should I attend and what will I gain?>>>


This experiential intensive is an opportunity to immerse yourself in, to be held and guided in a strong safe container for 4 days. At the end of this experiential intensive, your relationship to your pleasure and your capacity to experience pleasure will be formed, reformed or reconnected.


The journey will take you to meet your current pleasure limit or pleasure ceiling, Supporting you to expand your capacity to hold and experience pleasure in all its forms for prolonged time and you will know how to effectively reconnect to pleasure when you move away from it, when something external in life takes you out of it, when you forget, shut down or feel fear.


You will then take this new reality back into your everyday life, with a deep reference point in your being and body as to what pleasure is for you.


You will understand and appreciate how crucial this is to your well-being and therefore you will give it attention and priority.


You will be confident in understanding and speaking out your boundaries and therefore you will be more willing to allow it.


In the process your relationship to pleasure will be changed, reset and will have expanded on a neurological, cellular, somatic and mind level. You will have increased and heightened your pleasure limit or pleasure ceiling.



<<<Why Pleasure?>>>


Our ability to experience, feel and receive pleasure is an essential nurturing aspect of living life as a human being.


Pleasure can be gained from our intimate and casual relationships with others, our work, food, sports, hobbies, passions in life, dancing, music, singing, touch, sexuality and relaxation.


Pleasure keeps us engaged in life, it keeps us young and healthy and it changes the state of our mental and physical well-being.


Pleasure floods our systems with happy and healing hormones and other substances.


Pleasure is medicine for the body, mind and soul.


<<<Why do I need to learn how to feel pleasure. Shouldn’t that come naturally to me?>>>


We are born with a wonderful natural sense of innocence and pleasure. For many of us sadly the experiences we have in life move us away from pleasure.


 We may judge it as wrong, we are afraid of it, others judge or disapprove when we express pleasure, my church, family or culture tells me it’s wrong, we are punished for feeling pleasure, and we sometimes are dramatically disconnected from or forget/block out how to feel pleasure.


We therefore need to learn or relearn how to allow, invite and welcome pleasure back into our life


<<<Is this experiential intensive for singles or couples?>>>


This experiential intensive is suitable for singles, couples and friends working as pairs, including those of all genders and all sexual orientations. This is a great container for couples to regain the relationship with pleasure as individuals and as part of your relationship. You can always choose not to interact with others if that feels right for you.



<<<What do I need to know?>>>


You do not need any previous experience of similar or related work to attend this retreat. All the information, skills and knowledge you require will be taught during this week. If you have attended other trainings based on meditation, sacred/conscious sexuality, tantra or shamanism this retreat will compliment and work well to build on those skills.


<<<I have attended the in-person event of Master Your Pleasure, and I am considering joining this online version, would you advise this?>>>

This journey can be taken as a refresher or top up for your Master Your Pleasure (MYP) experience,  to remind you of the importance of the connection to all the different pleasures and the 8 level pleasure model. Perhaps, there were some levels/forms of pleasure you struggled to access at the in-person event? Perhaps, this is a journey and time to open more in those areas. This could also be a development process to take you even further on your pleasure journey. To observe where you are at right now, have you slipped back?  Or are you ready to increase your pleasure capacity even more?  


Taking the week-long MYP event will have changed your understanding of pleasure and your relationship to it, and as you know our relationship with pleasure is always on a curve of learning and unlearning. Life’s experiences also affect our capacity for pleasure, there is always something new to learn or discover. The last 6 months of life has been deeply imprinted for many with physical distancing, for some fear, lack of touch and relative isolation being a reality for a large number of us around the globe. I feel that this offering is a hand reaching out with a dose of one possible antidote to support us in the transition and adjustment to the new order world that many of us are living in for now.  There will be some variation in the content and practices in the virtual journey, and we will continue to work on the 8 level pleasure model.

<<<Refund & Cancellation policy >>>

If for some reason you are unable to attend the event:


For cancellations before March 15, 2021 - We will hold an admin fee of £ 50, and refund you the balance within 15 working days, , if you have provided your complete bank transfer information.  


For cancellations after march 15, 2021 - We will hold an admin fee of £ 150, and refund you the balance within 15 working days. , if you have provided your complete bank transfer information.  


If  we are unable to offer the event owing to circumstances or events beyond our control - We will offer a full refund (minus bank or payment processing fees or currency conversion). You will be refunded  within 15 working days, if you have provided your complete bank transfer information.  The organizer/event is not responsible for canceled personal travel (flight, train, etc) costs incurred in this case.

​By registering to the event (i.e confirming payment),  you indicate your agreement to these cancellation terms.

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Master Your Pleasure Online Edition - 4-day Live Session Journey. A Somatic, Tantrik, & Shamanic Body initiation through Pleasure.  


Next Dates - April 22- 25, 2021 | Timing - 10 am - 8 pm UK time 

Early Bird Places  - Fully Booked

Regular Places - £ 4508



Previous Dates


 Jan  7 - Jan 10, 2021 (Status -  Fully Booked)

Oct 15 - 18, 2020  (Status - Fully Booked)

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 April 22 -25,  2021 

Please register by completing the form below & paying the investment of £450 per person.  On completing the form below, you will be taken to a secure checkout screen. You will receive an automated confirmation of payment & email upon checking out ( i.e completing payment).


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Please do complete the participant information form as soon as possible. 

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